HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF NOT LOVING SOMEONE THE WAY YOU SHOULD IN YOUR LIFE???

  I sat down in a park couple of days ago alone on a metal chair basking the sun, suddenly an old man joined me on the seat and started a discussion with me...

Can you guess what our discussion was all about? NO right???

Gia sas (Hello!) he said, my friend are you okay? yeah all that came into my mind at that moment was some of Double U H Questions from this old man. Am very much okay i replied him, then there comes our discussion. 

When i was at your age i had a lot in my mind concerning life, one of them were "have i ever thought of not loving someone?" this question kept coming in my mind frequently. This amongst the others was so disturbing to me because most close family members and friends were quick to react to my behaviour and ways of expressing my feelings. Each persons on this earth planet has his or her unique ways of expressing their feelings i usually tell them. There was a day i came back home from work very tired and hungry, upon meeting my wife she was in the kitchen making dinner for the family. As a good husband i am, i bought a little gift for her. After the dinner we went to the room together and presented the gift to her, smile was filled on my face and wishing i could see the same on her face while she unwrapped the gift. But instead i received a slap on my face from her. 

Before i could realised ties were running down my little eyes at that moment, not knowing what could do to received such harsh and mean treatment from my wife. My friend i know you would be wondering what was inside the gift bag right? It was pair of a newborn baby shoes. Yes all i knew deep in my heart at that moment was i was not loving my wife the way i should as her husband.

I asked the old man whose name was Nicholas, why would your wife react to that incident that evening after you gave her the gift? He replied, my friend from the first day i met my wife Anna before we got married, all i showed to my wife was attention and affections she needed most. All that kept the bond and our marriage so strong, but there came some point i was not portraying those virtues to my Anna but instead showing her with all sort of gifts, charming and expensive ones.

So my friend now you know the reason right? I replied "Yes Nicholas". Nicholas then stood up and told me goodbye.

The question will always be in the minds of most humans if they had ever felt not loving someone the way they should do in their lives.

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