Between couples there are moments of Sweet(S) and Pain(P), but guaging where you two stand in any of these S or P moments is an important aspect for maintaining a healthy relationship. Hello my dear friends, in this article i am going to some signs what can possible cause any of your partner to cheat.
# You don't make any effort to see each other's friends or family.
If your partner seems to be dragging their feet or feeling reluctant when it comes to actually spending time with your friends and family, then that may be a sign your relationship is in perilous state.
If your partner is constantly making excuses not to get to know the important people in your life, he or she might not be too invested in getting to know you. Then your partner does not necessarily have to love everyone in your circle. Believe me if you start seeing such signs then either one of you is cheating.
# When you frequently avoiding conversations about long-term plans.
In the early stages of most relationships, it might have been natural to chat about the future right? -YES! Now neither of you are willing to engage in these talks about the future anymore and this could mean that your relationship is in its final stages.
It's either they sound hesitant or changes the topic completely when making critical plans for the future such as moving in together, marriage, or having kids. This red flag is also applicable on smaller plans you could be making with your partner. They will seem unexcited with the idea of having trips with your family or going on a vacation together, well with all these then its obvious that either one partner is cheating.
# You're never present when you're around each other.
It says it all thatexpl the way you spend your time when you're with your partner is a good indication of your feelings toward them. So, if you are frequently on your phone or distracted with other things while you're with your better half, then it shows them that you don't value your time with your spouse and possibly that you don't value them as a person.
Either your choices reveal your priorities or you are choosing time together. Are you choosing to give your full attention when you are together? Or are you choosing careers, friends, and distractions? Are you choosing to look at a person or a phone screen? I can say much but that's enough sign to show your spouse is cheating.
# You more happier when your spouse's not around.
Wait a minute, if this is valide that you're truly happier when your better half is not around, then it's heart aching to say that you totally do not want your spouse or you are cheating on your partner. If either of you are feeling this way, it might be time to call it quits. If you find yourself jumping at practically any opportunity to spend time without your partner, it's time to figure out why that's the case.
# When your relationship seems more like an obligation.
If your relationship feels more like a punishment than something you're eager to actively participate in, then my dear frind it's time to reevaluate whether or not your head is truly in the game (because it's probably not). However, if you've been with your sweetheart for some time and most often you have the feeling that your relationship is more like an obligation, then is time to reevalute your status in that relationship.
Remember that no relationship is doomed, if both partners are willing to work towards it then is a good sign for it survival. Also, emotions are the drives that keeps a relationship going, but without objectivity and logical guidance in analyzing a relationship then you dont expect the relationship to move smoothly in times of Pain moments.
Good luck to you both and remain objective.
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